This is the most common question we ask when we
experience problems and misfortunes. We expect that it will always be all
sunshine, and that God somehow made a mistake when something bad happens in our
lives.
Ms. Bronnie Ware, a
nurse who has worked in palliative care for many years, shared what the top 5
regrets people were saying on their deathbed.
She posted them
along with her notes on her website, and we’ve copied them below. Included on
each item are our own insights. We’ve also added a few more items or “regrets” that
we hope every Christian believer won’t have when it is time to go home to the
Lord.
You have a great
life: a stable job, an amazing spouse, wonderful children, nice car, you know,
everything that you need.
You’re always busy
living that fulfilling life, high-profiled, something that you can be proud of.
You’re famous, everybody is saying you’re big-time and you feel like they secretly
envy you.
I wish to buy my
daughter Ryah Denise a set of lutu-lutuan
(cooking toys) the last few days. She keeps on rummaging through our kitchen
cabinet, taking out our pots and pans and playing with them on the sofa near
the dining table.
But we need to keep
a tight budget due to some unavoidable, imperative expenses we did a couple of
weeks ago so that set of toy could wait. To somehow suffice the desire to get
one perfect set for her, I find myself checking out toy sections whenever I get
the chance.
A woman was walking
to a wet market for some green onions when she noticed a new vegetable garden
around the corner. As she entered, she was surprised to see no bushes, no
vines, and no herbs around. It was just an empty lot. A beautiful young man
dressed in shining white clothing came to her, noticing her confusion.
There are many
things that take away peace and quiet in our lives. Surprisingly, those that
affect us more are mostly internal, meaning within us and in our control.
Some are easy to
detect while others may take a while to discern because it has been so much
embedded in our character.
In a life-long
pursuit of spiritual growth, one must not overlook physical health. Because
whether we admit it or not we are here in a physical world, and it requires a
physical body to make most of work here done.
Being healthy is a
lifestyle. It’s not just a one-time walk on the track and field oval or a
one-time pass from sugary soda drinks.
Love is an
overly-used word. It can mean almost anything from a quick sexual encounter to
total sacrifice.
The Bible’s Love
chapter (found in 1 Corinthians 13) expresses Love in the passive, timid sense.
It says there that
Love is not envious, boastful, proud, rude, self-seeking, or easily-angered. It
does not rejoice in wrong but is protective, trusting, hopeful, and
persevering.